Being an Effective Father

Fatherhood is an honor and yet in today's society we are so caught up in the empowerment of women that we forget the importance and even the necessity of having a father in the home and raising up strong, independent, and motivated men. Parents have  a strong and powerful impact on the lives of their children, the mom is normally the primary nurturer and caregiver to her children, while fathers are generally the providers, protectors of the family, and the head of the household.

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Fathers are typically in the role as primary provider and in general, make it a personal commitment to meet the physical needs of the family. My father has spent many days worrying about his family and the needs that we had to meet to live a good comfortable life. When a couple first gets married they may both work and provide for a good comfortable life but things begin to change when that couple gets to a point where they want to have a family. It turns from husband and wife working together to provide for their needs to father working full time and mother staying home for more of the time to care for a child and teach them in the best way possible.

A woman can work and be a wife and a mother but it is hard and incredibly stressful especially when there are young children in the home. Most women decide that they will stay home with their children until their kids go to school and then they will work while they are in school and be effective with their time and help her husband provide for her family. This decision has been and is being made by many women throughout the United States. In the mean time while the mom stays home and raises her young children, the dad becomes the sole provider of the home and this becomes his main role as well as working with his wife to raise and teach his children. These years of refinement and change can be difficult but they are worth it and if the family can make it through these changes in one peace, then they can make it through anything.

Impact of a Father in the Home

Fathers are an amazing character in the home. They are an example for the children of honor, respect, and hard work. There is nothing like the relationship between a father and his children. The statistics even show this. Children who are raised with a father in the home are more likely to be upstanding citizens than those without. Girls that are raised without a father in the home are more likely to live promiscuous lives and make bad decisions with the men they allow in their lives than if they had a father in the home. Men who are raised in homes without a father or even where the parents never married are more likely to turn to crime and researchers have found that these type of people are more likely to be the ones that shoot up a school.

Fathers are exceptional examples of right and wrong for their children. They want to do good and be good for their children so that they make the best choices and be happy in their lives. There is no one and nothing that can replace a good father. In homes where fathers are not present consistently in the home there are amazing father figures who surround the children and moms can be grateful for them. This can be harder because the child won't have a consistent example in their lives like they would of their actual father.